Dating Tips For Guys

What is Zoosk? Facebook’s Dating Application

datingpua — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 05:05:49 +0000

So what is Zoosk? Well, it’s not just a wacky name, it’s a dating application on Facebook that’s growing pretty rapidly. It’s a way to find a date in your area. Zoosk will calculate your perfect match for you. You can tell someone you like them by flirting with them and see if they like you. So does Zoosk have the big online dating sites like Match and EHarmony shaking in their boots? Quite possibly. I recommend before trying to meet anyone, to learn the secrets to attracting the opposite sex at DatingWar.com – They offer the best free dating and attraction tips out there.

How To Get a Girl’s Phone Number (best number close methods)

datingpua — Wed, 27 May 2009 00:16:53 +0000

Most guys don’t know how to close a woman. One method to close a girl is called a number close. If she’s with a pack, make sure you isolate the female first and then get the number. Act like you have no chance of being rejected. If you get refused by a female, don’t let it bother you. You need to grow a sound inner confidence. You are going to be rejected sometimes and it’s okay. When asking for a girl’s number you need to assume that she already wants to give it to you. Keep strong vocal tone and look her in the eye. Don’t fumble with your phone and look down.

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Dating Advice: Don’t Seek Permission from Women

datingpua — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 17:50:07 +0000

Guys spend a lot of time trying to feel out a woman to see what type of behavior she’ll approve of. Then most guys act accordingly. They think that women will like them because they stayed within her boundaries and catered to what she wants. It’s almost like they wait for cues of permission before attempting or saying anything. You need to learn to stop seeking her approval. Women hate this. They won’t tell you that they don’t like this, but keep this stuff up and by the end of the night you’ll be sure to hear, “You’re such a nice guy. I think me and you can be great friends”. You are a strong, confident and powerful man! You don’t need a woman’s approval or permission to act how you want to act and do what you want to do. You’ll see that she’ll respect you for it.

Never ask her repeatedly if she’s having a good time. This is HUGE mistake that so many guys make. Act like you’re on the date to enjoy yourself. Don’t be overly concerned with making sure she’s having a good time. The more you ask if she’s enjoying herself, the more unsure you’ll seem of yourself. You need to convince yourself that you are a great date. You don’t need her to tell you that the date is going well to confirm this fact. Convince yourself that you are a fun, great guy and any woman that doesn’t see it, doesn’t deserve you.

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Day Game for Pick up Artists

datingpua — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 18:08:44 +0000

Day Game specifically talks about picking up girls during the day. Day game is for when you want to meet girls at places like malls, cafes, on the street, etc. It’s very different than night game. You have to bring your game “down a notch”. You can’t act the same way you would out at a bar or night club. A seasoned pick up artist knows that he needs to change his game up for day game. David Wygant does a good job teaching day game and so does Spencer Michaels.

Spencer Michaels’ newest program has a lot of good day game stuff. You can get it at
DatingWar.com

The Mystery Method guys (Love Systems) do some good bootcamps on Day Game, Click Here to find out more about their programs and bootcamps.

Infield Exposed Review – from Mehow Get The Girl

datingpua — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 05:49:08 +0000

Mehow has put together a really good dating/seduction program called Infield Exposed. It a very good DVD set that talk about infield proven strategies to pick up women. He shows real approaches from the top PUAs in the world. You see the actual real-life game of guys like Hypnotica, Carlos Xuma, Sinn (form Love Systems) and more. The videos follow each pickup artist as they use the real tactics and techniques that they teach. Then Mehow sits down with each PUA and discusses what they did step-by-step. It’s a must watch for anyone who considers themself a serious pick up artist or for anyone who wants to get girls. Mehow has put together a really good dating/seduction program called Infield Exposed. It a very good DVD set that talk about infield proven strategies to pick up women. No Infield Exposed review would be complete without mentioning the quality of the video. The quality is very good and you can tell that Mehow took pride in the creation of this product.

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I also HIGHLY recommend checking out Spencer Michaels’ new program at DatingWar.com

Mystery Method Pick Artist Techniques

datingpua — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 03:03:25 +0000

Looking for the best Mystery Method Pickup Artist Tehcniques? Well, go get his program. His stuff is very good. A key facet to being a good pickup artist is to learn state management. A good way be more appealing to females is to maintain a good emotional state. Girls look to males guys for their emotional status. A girl is searching for a guy who’s in the emotional state they want to be in. That’s why, if you look tiresome & nervous, there is no way you’ll pickup a woman. Females are creatures that look to men to control the mood they’re in. If you’re at a better energy level than them and you exude more confidence than her, she will desire to enter your world. For this reason guys have to control our state when with a woman. When you are in a low state and she’s with you, she will be uncomfortable. If you are in a low emotional state, you will put the woman in a bad state and she’ll feel the need to escape.

Spencer Michaels teaches a lot of good stuff on State Management at DatingWar.com

The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss – Is it a good book?

datingpua — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 04:42:52 +0000

For those of you who have never heard of it, there's a popular book out there called "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" by Neil Strauss that's been changing the way guuys go about approaching women. The book discusses Neil Strauss' personal journey during which he discovered a secret society of guys who use secret techniques to pick up women. Neil explains how he's lousy with women and that his love life is sub par. These guys take Neil under their wing and teach him the secret ways to meet and attract beautiful women. During the process, Neil becomes a master pick-up artist himself. Now Neil is touted as an expert on the subject of attraction and seduction. Guys actively seek out his adviceand pay him big money to teach them.


The book talks about how Neil Strauss goes from being an average Joe to being his new persona. Most of these pickup artists take on nickname for themselves and have named Neil, "Style". Neil takes us on a fascinating journey into this secret society of pick-up artists. The book is not only a good read, but it will actually teach you a lot. Many of the methods taught by Mystery in The Pick-up Artist season 2 are discussed in "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" .
I recommend giving this book a read, but don't stop there. In order to start attracting women, you need to have a system. You need to have a method (like the Mystery Method) to expedite the process of getting girls' phone numbers and eventually getting them into bed. Too many men go out to bars and clubs using idiotic pick-up lines and acting the fool, thinking they're going to pick-up girl. Get your weapons sharpened and watch women start coming to you.



The Best Openers for Pickup Artists
datingpua — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 04:40:40 +0000

Openers are like the new pick-up lines. They are ways to approach women in an given enviroment, like a bar or club, that make the job easier for you. The idea is to make it look like you’re just striking up a conversation with a girl or group of girls. Openers are especially effective when dealing with a group of girls, often referred to as “a set”. It can be haerd to penetrate a set because when a group of girls get together, they can be like a group of pirhanas. They put a front that is very hard for the average frustrated chump to conquer. There are several different types of openers a guy can use when approaching women.
Direct openers are just that – direct. They don’t try to conceal their intention. They are a simple, forward way to approach a girl. An example of a very simple direct opener is, “Hi, that’s a beautiful dress”.
Opinion openers are when you go to a woman or set of women and ask their opinion on something. Opinion openers are a favorite of Mystery from the Mystery Method and The Pickup Artist Season 2. These work pretty well because they don’t telegraph to much interest. An example of an opinion opener is “Who do you think lies more, men or women?”.
Situational openers are great because they related directly to a situation that’s going on. They involve a woman by including them in on something that’s going on around them. They create an instant bond between you and a woman.
The best dating system out there is the new one by Spencer Michaels. You can get it at his site http://www.DatingWar.com – He also has a lot of really good free dating tips on there.

       


How to Be a Pick up Artist: Build Comfort before Attraction
datingpua — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 04:36:05 +0000

So many guys try to be Mr. Smooth with girls before ever building comfort with them. For a woman to begin feeling attracted to a man, she must first feel confortable with him. If a girl doesn’t feel comfortable around you, there’s no way you can keep a conversation going with her and there’s no way you can ever begin developing attraction with her. In order to make sure the girl actually wants to be around you, you have to make her feel comfortable with you. You want to engage a girl’s interest in a very safe, fun way. You don’t want to set off any red flags that you may be strange or creepy.
There are certain times that comfort is there already. When you’re introduced to a girl through a trusted group of friends, there is already some comfort there. If you’re in a class with a girl or work with a girl, there is already comfort there. This makes your job of “picking her up”, much easier. Comfort building is a key aspect in the art of attraction. Meeting women in pre-built comfortable situations is the easiest way to get a woman.
Getting too flirty or projecting sexual interest, it’s important to make a girl feel generally “okay” about being around you. To become a pickup artist, you need to look around for situations where comfort building will be easy. Pay attention to girls who may be smiling at you and look for positive body language. if a girl looks very cold and is exhibiting negative body language, it’ll be harder to build comfort with her (although there are tons of ways to do so).

       


PUA Training – Style and Fashion Tips for Men
datingpua — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:25:01 +0000


Becoming a PUA (Pick Up Artist) is not a destination, it’s a journey of self improvement where there is no end. It is a constantly evolving process of gaining self confidence, self esteem and the by-product will be that you are more attractive to the type of woman that you want to be attracted to you.
There are aspects to becoming a PUA that will take you quite a while to become familiar with and incorporate into your arsenal and there are some things that you can do straight away.
Here are 4 things that you can do instantly.
Remove Unwanted Hair.
You may not realise that you have unwanted hair so take a good look at yourself and see if you have long nasal hair that protrudes and comes beyond the bottom of your nose. Check your ear lobes out and see if there are stray long hairs that stand out. Determine if you have a uni-brow and if you have all or any of these then address them straight away. Spend a minimal amount of money and buy a set of clippers and tweezers and remove the unwanted hair and keep on top of the regrowth.
Clear Out Old Clothes.
Have you been wearing the same jeans for the last 5 years? Are they out of fashion? You need to go through your wardrobe and give yourself a makeover. Think of the type of person you want to attract and look at the type of guys they generally hang out with. Look at the type of clothes that they wear and determine how you can incorporate those type of clothes into your own wardrobe. Ditch the comical T-shirts that illustrate your favourite cartoon character or brand of alcohol and go for a more serious fashion statement.
Accessorize Your Wardrobe.
Boring jeans can be made to look cool with the addition of a thick fashionable leather belt. Plain T-shirts can look good with an attractive leather bracelet round your wrist or some cool dog tags hanging down in front of it.

If you don’t wear jewellery consider a nice silver thumb ring or a discreet bracelet to match.
Get a New Hairstyle.
This is not hard to do and is not rocket science but you need to be honest with yourself and change is hard unless you are brutally honest. Go to a decent hair salon and ask the hair stylists opinion, look through some monthly issued men’s magazines to determine the latest styles, you could also watch popular music channels on TV to see what is in fashion.

If you are bald or going bald consider have a shaven head after all this is a very popular hairstyle.

If you have short hair try moulding it into different styles using some product from a reputable hair styling company such as hair wax or serum.
As you can see these are simple tips but are very effective, the hardest part is undertaking the research and committing yourself to caring more about how you look and how others may perceive you. Like most things in life you will only get out what you have put in and if things are not working out for you as you are then you must be honest with yourself and change them.
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