Learn to attract women like a PUA (Pickup Artist)

A lot of guys will memorize openers and routines in order to attract women when they begin their pickup artist journey. However what differentiates a master PUA from a standard PUA is the ability to have women open them. If someone is able to project a higher value without seemingly trying to they will come across as fun attractive people. There are various changes you can make to your current lifestyle which might make you more attractive, and result in women opening you rather than the other way around. Firstly, try peacocking, which is the art of wearing outrageous and colourful clothing. This will make you stand out from everyone else, and demonstrate that you have the confidence to wear something outrageous, and is something that a pickup artist will often do to increase their attractiveness.

A lot of PUAs will spend more and more time with other PUAs swapping tactics and openers, which will mean that they neglect an important aspect of their social life. Stop assessing a girl for her immediate sexual value to you, and remember the importance of their social value. A guy with a lot of girls in his social circle will be more comfortable talking to girls, and will have higher value if he walks around with a number of women in his company.

Think about who would be better placed to attract women: a short ugly guy who strolls in wearing a flowing fur coat with five beautiful women on his arm, who are hanging on his every word, or a 6ft guy standing on his own with a beer looking moody?

What most men don’t know, but what every pickup artist will know, is that women don’t put that much emphasis on looks when deciding what they find attractive. They are more attracted to status, high value, and of course, confidence.

Of course, telling someone to be confident is like telling some to be rich, or be good looking, however confidence can be learned and ultimately comes from being comfortable. Whether it’s being comfortable in the environment you’re in, comfortable in your own skin, and comfortable talking to beautiful women, confidence is a key feature of being able to attract women. If you feel that you lack confidence then don’t ignore the problem, tackle it head on! Take a tefl course, or sign yourself up for a stand up comedy open mike night, or do anything which will force you to speak in public, and will therefore improve your public speaking skills. If you are not comfortable going to bars, then start going more regularly until you are. If you are not confident opening sets of girls, then just force yourself to start approaching, as it’s the only way you’ll improve. There are plenty of courses and products that will tackle approach anxiety, and the best way is to get out there and start doing it, and if you do it enough you may even become a pickup artist.

Once you have approached a certain amount of sets you will begin to become more comfortable and confident doing it, and will exude a natural confidence and coolness in situations which once made you nervous and anxious. However this will only come about through practice and cannot be magically removed from your psyche. People don’t go from AFC to PUA overnight.

If you really want to attract women and improve at it, try making some changes to what you are currently doing. Start making an effort to peacock, and wear more noticeable flamboyant things when you go out. Make more of an effort to include women in your social circle, and go out with them more. When approaching girls don’t just think about whether you can f-close them, think about what value they could add if you were to start going out with them. A good PUA will be able to incorporate all these things into his social circle naturally, which will give him the confidence and attractiveness that a lot of guys don’t have.

 

About the Author

Jamie Meeka is a key player in the Bristol pick up community. Once unsuccessful with women, Jamie discovered the game and decided that he wanted to dedicate his life to attracting women, and is now rated as one of the premier pick up artists in the UK.

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